The ultimate value of counselling for me is the risk that both counsellor and client take to meet each other on a human level to share and appreciate the experience of living. Secondary to this is ensuring that I am professional and accountable in terms of the relationship and help that I offer.
I worked as a Primary Care Counsellor in the Chichester
and Worthing NHS from 1999 to 2006.
I gained a psychology degree in 1987 and before training
as a counsellor worked in the health service as a facilitator, working
to improve the quality of the service for patients. I did my professional
training in Devon achieving an Advanced Diploma in Integrative Counselling.
I am now an accredited member of the British Association for Counsellors
and Psychotherapists
My qualifications include:
I abide by the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) Code of Ethics. As recommended by the BACP I have regular supervision and undertake my own personal therapy.
The types of issues that people have brought to counselling with me
are depression, anxiety, relationship problems, family difficulties,
abuse, bereavement, eating problems, obsessive behaviours or self harm.
We have looked at the strategies they used growing up that helped them
get what they needed or helped them survive. We have looked at how those
strategies were useful then but may create more problems now and looked
at ways of living using different strategies.
Inspiration and Learning
My learning and inspiration has come from many sources and over many
years. Having worked over ten years in the health service I feel passionately
that we are only helpful to others if we have what we need ourselves.
Too many doctors, nurses, therapists, teachers etc feel stressed and
exploited in their working environments and become burnt out. Counselling
can help people step back from their situation and work out what they
need in order to have a balanced and healthy life.
I am a mother of a young child and step mother. In the same way that
paid professionals can get burnt out if they do not have what they need
for themselves I believe that parents, and in particular mothers, often
experience low self-esteem, lack of confidence, isolation, guilt and
resentment and a reduced experience of joy in parenting if they do not
get their needs met. I have learnt much from my parenting experience
and the help that I received from counselling.
I enjoy and have integrated into my work ideas from Transactional Analysis,
Gestalt, and Systemic Theories.
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